Discover your element.

Most of us get one thing that, when it is done by us, we feel totally within our element. It’s dancing for me. I’ve been dancing since I have had been 5 years old whilst still being absolutely nothing (not really my 2nd love: writing) makes me feel well informed and alive. Even though we don’t feel great about my appearance, or I’m having a crappy time, escaping . from the dance flooring can clean most of the negative emotions away.

What makes you're feeling in your element? If it is one thing a couple can partake in (particularly party), then that is a fantastic date suggestion. You’ll emerge from the gate showing your date who you really are at your most fulfilled. Then arrange to do it before you go on your date if it’s not something for two (or if it’s something your date wouldn’t enjoy doing like my husband with dancing. Then you can ride from the a lot of being in your element and bring all sorts of good vibes to your date. You’ll feel much better from you setting yourself up for the best possible experience about yourself and your date will feel that confidence radiating.

Why do we repeat this to ourselves?